All the way back on day 12 of NanoPoblano, Charlene from “The Illusion of Controlled Chaos” recounted a brief story about troubleshooting a small toilet problem, and that got me thinking. My comment at the time was specific to toilets, but my thoughts didn’t stay there.

Before long, I was thinking about all the things that being an adult involves, both the good and the bad. On the good side, I like that my time is my own, and I can make my own decisions about where to live, what to do with my free time, and the like.

I was also trying to list all the things that I really don’t like about being an adult. I’m not talking about the big obvious ones like bills and taxes and the health issues that come from getting older, I just mean the silly ones.

For example, I mentioned toilet maintenance in the comment on Charlene’s post as a thing that I don’t enjoy about being an adult. Specifically, I was talking about that little dance with the bleach tablet and the scissors and holding up the top of the toilet tank which is somehow ALWAYS DRIPPING WET while putting the cleaning stuff down into the tank. I don’t enjoy that at all, although I appreciate the effect it has on my toilet.

Another thing I don’t like about being an adult is going to sleep at a reasonable time and waking up at a reasonable time. I’m not a morning person. My chronotype is “get sleepy around 2am, naturally wake up close to 10.” My employment requires that I be a DayWalker, though, so I have to wake up earlier each day, which means I almost never really get enough sleep. I think being an adult means managing a never-ending cycle of caffeine and poor sleep.

Perhaps the thing that I dislike the most about being an adult is the never-ending march of deciding what to eat for my next meal. Some people delight in meal planning, but for me, it’s a significant chore. Ordering from restaurants doesn’t really make it any easier, either. If I let the decision-making process go too long, then I get into a cycle where I’ll look at different things whilst being very hungry, and will have trouble deciding on anything at all. I know from experience that if I’m TOO hungry, I will default to the worst possible food, but only after a very long period of indecision and waffling.

What are the things you dislike the most about being an adult?

48/52 (and 27 of 30!)


9 thoughts on “Adulting.

    1. Oh yeah, it’s frustrating. Here’s the hilarious flip-side though: if I’m already at a restaurant, there’s usually several things that sound equally good to me and I wind up just as flummoxed on ordering.

      I have been known to make my choice based solely on whether or not a dish has avocado.


  1. Hate chores, hate cooking, LOVE eating. Depending on how hungry I get when I make the decision, I’ll eat anything because I’m starving. I make the best food choices are when I’m not hungry yet.

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  2. The thing I like least about being an adult is this whole “I’m supposed to have the answers” thing. I have 5 children and 3 grandchildren, and when they come to me with questions, they are very likely to leave with more questions.

    Most of what passes for answers with me are from the “I don’t know — try and get more sleep, I mean, I don’t, but I hear it’s a good idea” family of advice.

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